1.Understanding the value of effective communication in a relationship
He is a guy who is mature enough to know that in order to make things work with you; he’s going to have to be an effective communicator. He’s going to have to really make an effort to talk to you. He can’t be all distant and quiet about how he feels or what he thinks. He shouldn’t be hiding who he is from you. He is a guy who knows that he always has to stay honest and open with you.
2. Mere presence enough to make feel safe
He always does whatever he can to make you feel at ease. He will do whatever he can to make you feel relaxed. He won’t feed your insecurities. He won’t abuse or manipulate you. He always grants you shelter in his arms. He always treats you like a gentle and delicate little flower that he needs to protect at all costs.
3. Always acts like a true gentleman He has great manners – particularly when he’s around you. He has a kind heart and an old soul. He knows that he always has to conduct himself with grace and dignity if he wants to earn your respect. And he’s always going to be on his best performance when he’s around you especially because you kind of bring it out of him.
4. Having strong foundation of principles and values
He isn’t someone who anyone can just walk all over. He is strong-willed. He has a concrete foundation of ethical values and principles that he would never compromise. You know that he is an upright human being who lives life by a very solid code.
5. A hard worker for relationship
He is always going to work hard for you and for himself. He is going to work hard for your relationship. He is a guy who understands that the best things in life are always earned and not given; and he’s never afraid to put in the hard work for the things that he wants the most. And so you can bet that he’s always going to exert maximum effort for you and your relationship.
6. Knowing time to have fun
But even though he’s a hard worker, he also knows that life isn’t meant to be taken so seriously. He still maintains a light heart and he’s always going to be able to show you a good time. He knows that life just isn’t worth living if there is no joy and happiness – and that’s why he always makes it a point to bombard you with lots of smiles and happy memories.
7. Giving confidence to go after your dreams
He motivates you and encourages you to keep ongoing. He doesn’t serve as some kind of roadblock or barrier. He doesn’t serve as added weight to your life. He pushes you to where you need to be. He is always your number one supporter.
8. Allowing to take care of him
He’s entirely competent of taking care of himself – but he also knows that you want to express your love for him by caring for him. And even though it might be susceptible for him to do so, he still lets you take care of him.
9. Really pays attention when you want to get something off your chest
Aside from just being a good communicator, he is also a very good listener. He knows that communication is a two-way street; and that it’s just as important for him to pay attention to you as it is for him to be expressing himself. He always makes sure that you feel safe and secure enough to always express yourself in whatever way you might see fit.
10. Include you in the planning process of the relationship
He always makes sure that you feel included in your relationship. He doesn’t treat you like some kind of mere accessory that he’s dragging along for the ride. He makes you a real part of it because he respects you and he values your opinions.
11. Never acts withholding of his love and affection
He never holds anything back when it comes to you. He never plays any games with you. He doesn’t try to act coy. He doesn’t try to play it cool. He doesn’t act as if he’s cold and distant; as if he’s indifferent and disinterested. He loves you and he’s always going to make it known to you. He isn’t going to hide just how much space in his heart that you have managed to take up.
12. Really commits to making the relationship work
He is a loyal guy. He is determined. He knows that the relationship isn’t going to be so easy, but he also knows that he has the resilience that it takes to power through whatever problem or obstacle either of you might have to face as a couple. He knows that he is dedicated to doing as much as possible to protect your shared love for one another.